Biologists say, when the moth make the pupa, their wings atrophy and are not developed; but when they go out from the cocoon, they must go through a struggle so that the body fluid can only flow in the wings, and two powerful wings can fly in the air.
However, a person happened to see a cocoon in the tree began to be active. Throughout the morning, he was so patient to observe over there. The moth was struggling inside and still could not get rid of the cocoon; it seemed no longer to go out. Finally, his patience was exhausted, and used a small pair of scissors to cut a small hole in the cocoon, so that let the moth could come out a little easier. Sure enough, not for a while, the moth easily climbed out, but the body was bloated and the wings were abnormal contraction. His help countered into a mistake. That moth not only could not fly in the air, showing its full beauty; but very painful to climb for a while and then died.
Love is to give, and the people willing to give themselves to loved people is happy. But the love to give should be appropriate; otherwise, it will be harmful.
Indeed, sometimes we help others is redundant, we will give others a burden. This is not really helping people. That someone will ask how do I know when to help others, which ones do not help? It depends on our own discretion, and if you think other people have the ability to get this done, then we do not intervene, if he cannot afford, then we can help. At this time, people will treat you with grateful eyes.
In fact, that person helped the moth just liked parents love their children. Love is so much, which will be spoiled love. Kids usually grow up in a favorable environment, and do not experience any setbacks, and has been living in smooth situation, their ability to withstand pressure is weak. Since they set foot on the society, they are difficult to survive. This is the same reason as moths came to the world without a struggle.
Therefore, we should give other appropriate love and assistant, rather than whether other need or not, simply try to show you a gentleman or your good character.
