Firstly, do not compare with others and belittle our own. Everyone has their own characteristics, each person is unique miracle. Do not take your own advantages to compare to others’ disadvantages; often do not feel you are worse than others, because no one can be called perfect.
Life’s biggest shortcoming is to compare you with others. When compared to the superior, we will feel ourselves inferior; when compared to the laity, we will become dirty; and when compared to the mediocre people, we will become arrogant. External comparison is the source of our turbulent heart, but also makes the most of the people lost their identity, and blocks their original spiritual things.
Secondly, do not think the important things that other people feel as your life goal. There is one kind of people in life, care about other people's perception of him, complete with rules of others for evaluation. People say well, he will do according to people's ideas; people say badly, he will regret, fear, be guilt, and depress. He always worries about the opinions of others, often disguises them to meet others, and even do not know who he is. Norwegian playwright Ibsen’s famous saying said: “What is man's first duty? The answer is simple: to do myself.” Yes, the first is to do ourselves. To identify ourselves, take our own destiny and realize our life values, the only way to truly be our own masters.
Thirdly, do not turn a blind eye to the most familiar things. What are the things we are most familiar with? You may be the most easily overlooked - relatives, friends, love, time, work, health, reputation… All this now make you successful, not all of this, you are just a loner, unable to move. If you ignore your most affinity with the things, then it means the money will be pushed from the side. Only to make good use of all the resources around you, you may be smooth on the road of life and career, and enter into the next level.
Last, Do not indulge in the past or future and let life slip through our fingers. The down to earth and know how to make full use of the people, by no means they have illusions for unknown future, nor will regret their failure and memory the glory of past. They know that only value life today, it does not make life becomes empty, become boring. Do not trample on at the foot of the rose today because of tomorrow’s mirage, so the timing could make contributions quietly will be away.
