There was an elderly, when he was young, his parents had both died. So he was an orphan since he was a child. When he grew up, he married and had children, with a stable home. But his wife left him after leaving him two sons and two daughters. So he raised his children personally. Watching the children grew up day by day, he had some comfort in the heart. However, his two sons all drowned in the river because of swimming. Chinese saying goes that there are three major pains in life, which is the youth loses father, the middle-aged man loses wife and the old loses children. This is great grief and pain of life, while the old man had experienced every one.
Now the old man had two daughters. After graduating from college, two daughters were assigned to work in other places. However, unfortunate things took place in the old man. His young daughter was murdered in the night, and the reason had not been identified. Attacking on the old man was still a great pain. Since then, the old man was significantly older.
Although everyone now can see his grief in the heart through his eyes, but when he was still calm in the attitude to others, with gentle expression, you can feel that he did not want people to compass him because of a little sadness. His speech was always very calm; you were hard to see from his face what he had experienced. Who will be surprised after knowing him, he was so calm after experiencing the storm.
How much life can withstand the weight, what kind of toughness does life have? In fact, we often are not clear, and we know that the fragility of life. Test failure, frustration of promotion, estranged neighbors, family conflicts, lovers’ empathy, children quarrel, brothers bickering, etc., and even many trivial things can make people irrational, mental chaotic and lead to life crisis: suicide and homicide. So a lot of deep thinking philosopher, after summing up all kinds of life, they feel how precarious life is. But some people, all human suffering and misfortune seem to rush to him, he was painful, but to bear down, still clear and calm, meticulously walking his own path in life. They were so alive as if to prove to people that: Life in the end is what kind of tough.
